Let's be honest, divorce and narcissistic domestic violence is probably the hardest thing you have ever walked through. How did you even get to this place in life? Feeling all of the emotions has you wanting to scream and cry and has left you downright exhausted. You don't know if you can take another breath. You feel so overwhelmed by the thought of this new life, your thoughts and emotions pulled in so many new directions, it's easy to believe you will remain stuck forever. You can't imagine doing even one more thing, but Kristi's Keys are three fundamental pieces to the puzzle that you have been missing. I've got you!
Everyone is always saying ‘just pray about it’ or ‘God says this’ and ‘God says that’? Here’s the thing: knowing God isn’t about memorizing what other people say about Him or just going to church on Sunday mornings (or watching from your bed). I spent way too long picking through everyone else’s ideas about God. I found out – that wasn’t a good look for me! I spent years thinking I knew God because I knew what other people said about Him – my mom, my ex, my pastor, and my friends. God is waiting to have a real, actual relationship with YOU – not filtered through anyone else’s experience, and not filtered through your trauma. And let me tell you, when you finally get to know Him for yourself, it’s a total game-changer!
You know how your little guys think your superpower is making the perfect mac and cheese, even though you basically deserve superhero status on the daily for the other million things you do? Somewhere between becoming a single mom, dealing with the heavy stuff that leads to divorce and the divorce itself (because it’s the gift that keeps giving), you’re trying to keep it all together. Most days, it’s difficult to remember your own name or to shower. Do you remember the hobbies you used to enjoy? Do you know how to manage all the thoughts that fall into your head? Do you know how to be the boss of your emotions instead of letting them boss you around? These are things that help you Know Yourself.
This new path you’re on is hard! Everyone feels completely lost at first – imagine trying to climb Mt Everest in flip flops with a broken compass, a map that’s written in crayon covered in spilled grape juice and lit on fire. Yep, hard! Like divorce, single momming, and basically recreating your whole life. You’re looking up at this mountain of stuff to figure out – the house situation, car drama, career moves, kid chaos, and don’t even get me started on those finances you’ve never had to touch before. Your brain is probably screaming ‘WHERE DO I EVEN START?!’ But here’s the thing – you don’t have to climb to the peak today. You just need to take one step, and I promise you can do that. You’re not the first woman to make this climb, and you don’t have to do it alone!
I see you fighting those tears while folding laundry or sitting in your car after another exhausting court date. That knot in your stomach feels permanent these days. Breathe with me, in through the nose, out through the mouth. There you go. I know right now you’re toggling between “I can do this” and “I’m literally dying” (about fifty times a day). The emotional whiplash is real! Trust me, I’ve been where you are – wondering if the fog will ever lift. Everyone’s got advice but nobody really gets it.
Enter Hopeful Healing Boxes! Each month, I send you exactly what your broken heart needs – permission to heal and tools to rebuild. Never fear, God is right beside you, even when it feels like everyone else chose the other team. Healing shouldn’t be another overwhelming item on your to-do list, you need something that meets you right where you are. These boxes deliver cozy comfort, scripture that actually helps, journal prompts that don’t make you roll your eyes and little treats that feel like a big hug.
This box is your monthly lifeline to healing and hope! Each one is specifically designed to help you make forward progress on your journey without getting stuck in confusion or overwhelm. Here’s what’s included:
Your path to healing deserves faith-filled support that fits your busy life. That’s why every Hopeful Healing subscription box includes exclusive access to our carefully crafted video series, designed specifically for Christian women navigating life after divorce. Let our monthly videos be your trusted guide, offering faith-centered wisdom exactly when you need it.
Transform watching into doing with your companion workbook, designed to deepen your healing journey through thoughtful reflection and practical application. This carefully crafted guide works hand-in-hand with your monthly videos. This is more than just pages – it’s your private sanctuary for processing and growth.
Experience the power of community from the comfort of your home with our monthly virtual gatherings. Share your journey with women who truly understand, as we come together for connection, creativity, and Christ-centered fellowship. This is a place where healing happens in community, creativity flows freely, and hope is always present.
Because you deserve to feel cherished on this journey, we carefully select self-care items that nourish your spirit and remind you of your worth. These aren’t just products – they’re permission to pause, reflect, and care for yourself. They are soothing comfort items that bring peace to your day and are little luxuries that you wouldn’t think to get for yourself.
and I’m thrilled you’re here. I’ve been right where you are—I’ve felt all the feels you’re feeling. I was in a “christian” marriage for 23 years. On Sunday mornings, we served on the worship team, led ministries and looked shiny and bright. I can’t even describe Monday-Saturday’s darkness in one sentence, but you understand!
I have spent a lifetime teaching and helping women grow in their faith, but after the trauma of divorce – I know women need more. I became a certified Christian counselor and life coach to help bridge the gap between the hope found in scripture and the healing found in therapy.
Feeling overwhelmed and stuck? This course is like a breath of fresh air when you’re drowning in despair and feeling defeated. Think of it as your personal compass and a bag of trail mix—the fun kind loaded with candy, not the boring raisins! This course offers the perspective and tools you need to walk your way out of the darkness. Watch as God takes your life from “down in flames” to “beauty for ashes.”
Ever caught yourself thinking, “Am I losing it? Is this really happening?” If you’re questioning your own judgment or reality, you’re likely being treated in ways that make you doubt yourself. This course is your magnifying glass, helping you see clearly through the confusion of a complex and abusive relationship. You’ll gain insights and strategies to navigate this challenging time, so you can reclaim your truth and your sanity.
That dream life whispering to you as you drift off to sleep? It’s within reach. This year-long course is designed to help you build the life you’ve always dreamed of—the one that calls to you from deep within your soul. Whether you’re just starting out or looking to reignite your fire, this course will guide you in unlocking your God-given potential, no matter what stage of life you’re in.
Feel like you’re always the doormat to someone else’s drama, chaos, bad attitude or abuse?
Is it possible to be a God girl AND have safe relationships?
The backstage pass to mi vida loca. The kids, the pets and the hubs – I share all-most everything! It’s where you find truth, joy, laughter and advice. From one sister to another – all-ways with love – the facts on creating a life you LOVE after divorce, trauma or domestic violence.
(Ask me how I know)
